Smartphone etiquette tips for any context

Etiquette for cell phones on dates.

Dating, in general, can be stressful. Individuals may feel the need to impress their date and present themselves well, especially during the early stages of the relationship. Some may partake in phubbing, which is when an individual begins to pay less attention to someone who is talking and more attention to their phone instead — this may be because of nerves, boredom, or out of habit. While it may not be necessary to completely disregard using your phone at any time while on a date, it is important that you be mindful of how you do so. Here are a few tips for proper date night phone etiquette: 

• Ask your date if they would be bothered by you taking pictures of the food, scenery, etc;

• Don’t continuously show them things you’ve found on your phone. One or two items may be alright, however, refrain from showing them your entire social media feed, even if you find the content funny;

• If able to, you should both put your phones away in your bag or pocket;

• Let your date know ahead of time if you’re expecting an important phone call at any point during your time together;

• Refrain from nervously going onto your phone;

• Set your phone on silent.

Etiquette for cell phones at work.

Prior to following any workplace cell phone etiquette advice, one should first review their specific workplace’s phone policy — this policy should take precedence over any outside advice that is given. Generally speaking, some businesses are becoming more accepting of phones in offices, being more aware that it is possible to maintain workplace productivity in an era of smartphones — as “convenience is a crucial aspect that all organizations and firms look to obtain for their employees. Smartphones provide the ability for employees and clients to communicate and contact one another quickly and efficiently.” 

If you are a part of a business that allows you to use your phones, it is important to follow proper cell phone workplace etiquette to help reduce the chances of you getting these privileges taken away. 

• Be aware of your ringtone. If you work at a business that requires you to answer your cell phone often you may want to download a ringtone that sounds professional (no high pitches, isn’t too loud, no obnoxious sounds, no profanity, etc);

• Don’t look at your phone during meetings;

• Don’t place your phone on your lap;

• Focus on the person that should have your attention i.e. customer, client, coworker, boss, etc;

• Keep your personal calls private;

• Keep your phone out of sight;

• Don’t engage in arguments over the phone while at work;

• Silence your device.

Etiquette for cell phones at professional gatherings.

Just as with informal gatherings such as dates and some workplaces, there are cell phone etiquette tips to keep in mind for professional gatherings such as conferences, training sessions, seminars, product launches, and more: 

• Don’t take photos unless you’re allowed to;

• Don’t use your phone as a way to avoid social interactions;

• Focus on face-to-face networking;

• Keep your phone on silent;

• Verbally excuse yourself for important calls when necessary;

• When you do take photos, turn off your flash as a courtesy to others around you. 

When to not use your cell phone.

In some scenarios, it is unacceptable to use your mobile phone entirely, despite taking the above etiquette tips into consideration. The following list outlines different situations when you’ll want to avoid your phone altogether:

• At movie theaters and other large gatherings of any kind;

• Attending church;

• While giving birth;

• During a job interview;

• Funerals;

• When someone is talking to you;

• While driving;

• While you’re eating a meal;

• While you’re studying.

How often you use your cell phone is entirely up to you. However, when doing so, keep in mind that there is a time and place for it. By following the above cell phone etiquette guidelines, you can ensure you’re not being disrespectful or breaking any rules and are mindful of those around you.